Lisa Lane

Therapy for Growth and Balance

Relationship Counselling

Relationships can bring deep fulfilment, but they can also become one of the most challenging parts of our lives.

You may be finding it difficult to communicate, feel a growing distance between you and your partner or be struggling with unresolved hurt and resentment. At times, changes such as infidelity, illness, grief, or shifting life goals can also leave you feeling lost, disconnected, or uncertain about the future. You might also be considering separation or simply be feeling stuck and unsure where to turn.

I will work with you to explore these challenges in a supportive and non-judgmental space.

Together, we might focus on improving communication, deepening understanding, and rebuilding trust and connection. Through dialogue, my hope is that you will feel sufficiently equipped to work through conflict and develop new ways of relating to one another — creating a deeper, stronger and resilient partnership.

I welcome and support all couples, respecting and affirming diverse sexual orientations, gender identities, diverse cultural and relational styles. My role is to help each partner reflect on both their personal and shared challenges and find a more balanced, compassionate and authentic way forward.

While psychosexual therapy often focuses on specific sexual difficulties, relationship counselling takes a broader view — exploring patterns of communication, emotional connection, and the overall health of the relationship.

 

How we might explore:

In our sessions, we would work collaboratively to understand what is happening between you and your partner and identify what each of you needs to feel more connected and supported.

Sessions may include:

  • Exploring recurring patterns of conflict or misunderstanding
  • Learning tools to improve communication and emotional expression
  • Developing empathy and active listening skills
  • Rebuilding trust after conflict or betrayal
  • Strengthening emotional and physical intimacy
  • Clarifying shared values, goals, and boundaries

Whether you attend alone or with your partner, the focus is on creating a respectful space where voices can be heard and where positive change becomes possible. 

Book an online or in-person session with me

When beginning therapy, I will suggest we have a brief initial phone call to discuss why it is you seek therapy now, your expectations and for me to answer any questions. This is a free call.

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Testimonials

“I have been working with Lisa for almost 4 years, every session brings up something new to think about and discover. Started with Lisa to explore one aspect of myself/my relationship but we delved so much deeper and wider than what I thought the initial ‘problems’ were. From our first session, I felt heard and understood. Lisa’s approach is both professional and compassionate, making it easier for me to open up about my concerns. Lisa is supportive and challenges me (in a good way). I am enjoying learning about myself in a safe environment, Lisa’s insightful guidance and practical advice has helped me navigate through some challenging times. I appreciate the flexibility of online sessions, which allows me to fit therapy into my work schedule
“I highly recommend Lisa to anyone seeking support and personal growth. Her expertise and genuine care have been invaluable to me”
“It's been a tough, emotional but very rewarding five years that Lisa and I have worked together. Five years that is coming to an end thanks to her warmth, understanding, insight and tenacity to help me through my troubles”.
“Couples therapy with Lisa couldn’t have been better. Through this 3-way therapeutic relationship we began a process of understanding fundamental elements of our early learned behavioural patterns. This is a challenging process which Lisa held space for sensitively and without judgement. We were able to hold parts of ourselves open to each other in a way which we had not previously done. The learning which followed brought fresh understanding and compassion to our everyday relationship, which has changed how we relate to each other and will impact us forever”.
"Thank you for showing me how to suffer my edges, firm up my shell and open my heart. You demonstrated this to me by going within yourself. Referring where feelings lying in the body”